Hes Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys?ÿ

“She says: There is something great about knowing that my only job is to be as happy as I can be about my life, and feel as good as I can about myself, and to lead as full and eventful a life as I can, so that it doesnt ever feel like Im just waiting around for some guy to ask me out. And most importantly, its good for us all to remember that we dont need to scheme and plot, or beg anyone to ask us out. Were fantastic. For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. Hes afraid to get hurt again. Maybe he doesnt want to ruin the friendship. Maybe hes intimidated by me. He just got out of a relationship. Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that — despite good intentions — youre wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although theyd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages. The truth may be Hes just not that into you. Unfortunately guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, “Youre not the one.” But their actions absolutely show how they feel. Hes Just Not That Into You — based on a popular episode of Sex and the City — educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesnt like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillos wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean “Im in love with you and want to be with you.” Hes Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every womans night table. It knows youre a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start “figuring him out,” consider the glorious thought that maybe Hes just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.”